Nienke's five-star hotel experience

For my 50th birthday, I booked a room for two nights at the Waldorf Astoria in Rome. Because I wanted to treat myself, but also because I wanted to make my 50th birthday a special experience. It's a very big hotel, so I even upgraded myself to the Imperial Floor. Larger rooms, a special lounge with drinks and snacks, but also – I thought – more personal attention.

Was it a fancy hotel? YES.

Did it have a great spa? YES.

Did it have a beautiful outdoor pool with fluffy beach towels? YES.

Did it have an excellent breakfast? YES.

'Product wise' it was all very good.

But did the hotel have any personal attention regarding my 50th birthday? NO.

It was a disappointment. One of my friends from the Netherlands had arranged a bottle of prosecco, a box of chocolates and a personal note for me, which were delivered to my room on my last night as a 49-year-old. I also mentioned my birthday in the lounge (because I know most CRM systems fail). But on the morning of my 50th birthday, I didn't receive a single congratulatory message from the hotel. Not in my room, not at breakfast, not in the lounge, not at check-out. Nothing. Even though they should have known...

I began to wonder if five-star luxury hotels have become a commodity? I don't know, but I do know that if you're a luxury brand that promises a certain level of personalized service, this is a big mistake. I also shared this story on Linkedin, where many agreed that the hotel missed the mark. But some called it a possible culture gap. That is possible and maybe this is true for Italian birthdays, but the guests at the Waldorf (which I saw) were mostly Americans or English-speaking guests. And I know how important birthdays are to Americans! Even more so than for me as a Dutchman.

The interesting thing was that at check-out, the staff member asked if my stay had been pleasant. And that was true, so that's what I indicated. This is also where they fell short in asking for feedback. (Be sure to read the CX lens blog in which I share my suggestion for them!) And... I didn't receive a survey. The staff of the Waldorf can only read my experience on LinkedIn (or in this blog).

Why did I post on LinkedIn? Not because I wanted to fix this. Because if I had wanted to, I would have called the hotel, or sent a 'complaint'. No, it's more of a question for us as CX professionals. What do you do with these special days? Especially in the leisure industry. Was I expecting too much as a guest? I made this post to share, learn, and get the conversation going.

So, click on to read this case from the professional CX lens!

 

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results.